tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2288526801802060714.post1284687835427307479..comments2023-06-21T07:34:29.419-07:00Comments on just me...still finding me: just ramblingUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2288526801802060714.post-91028652459780375482009-02-27T06:35:00.000-08:002009-02-27T06:35:00.000-08:00So sorry to hear of your pains. Remember how impo...So sorry to hear of your pains. Remember how important it is for you to forgive -- mostly yourself! When you hold on to those thoughts, you only torture yourself and make yourself miserable.<BR/><BR/>I believe it was Buddha who said that there are 1000 joys and 1000 pains in life. Pain is inevitable. We make it suffering when we constantly hold onto it.<BR/><BR/>Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.<BR/>author of <A HREF="http://www.savethemarriage.com" REL="nofollow">Save The Marriage</A>Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.https://www.blogger.com/profile/04039929043285686787noreply@blogger.com